My Rules for Stress- I promise if you follow these tips you will feel freer!

MY RULES FOR STRESS REDUCTION

Try , really hard.. to work no more that 10 hrs a day !
Have at least 1.5 days off .-no work related tasks anyhow
allow at least 1/2 hr for a meal - enjoy it , savour each bite - don't think about anything but your meal.
eat is slowly - chew well - helps with digestion. seriously.
try really hard to listen to some relaxing music - I personally love rock- classic rock however I will listen to music with no words , just nice rhythms . If you are not listening to the lyrics you can totally mind wash.
practice meditation /relaxation techniques blog for tips at least 2 times daily for 15 mins - I know this is hard, very. however even when you are driving car to work.. put on a relaxing c.d and don't think about anything causing anxiety - I will count that as 1 .
ok - this one is hard , for me anyhow- try to walk , and talk and more slowly- there is no need to always be in a rush- slow and deliberate - concentrate on your words and your strides - just try this - it takes the edge off . In cultivating these steps you seem more relaxed , even if your not there yet - you are perceived that way.
smile - respond with kindness to people .. it comes back two-fold. It makes you feel good about yourself -
plan one trip a year - not work related - a relaxing , get a way from it all vacation- Don't let financial issues bog you down here - I know you are all out there saying , come on Kymm we don't have that kind of money - well first of all, this is one of the most important expenditures of the year- this is pertinent . Your well -being depends and deserves this.We all work hard, we all deserve a get-away - DESERVE - (you can plan a retreat to go camping, or a couple of days at a cheaper lodging , as long as you are away from it all.
Exercise, I am not going into too much detail here, we all know how essential excercise is! I am going to blog about some great relaxing exercises later on.
please , please watch what you eat- I know we all love our treats - however moderation moderation .. moderation- having a nice glass of red wine, or a piece of chocolate, or a hamburger is a great release- however the normal diet should be high in fruits, veggies and lean protein - it helps so much when your digestion system is not taxed . Plus the energy you get from eating well helps alot in combating stress.
Being a stress consultant , I can help people more 1 on 1 with this one... but please get help if something like mental issues (depression) or relationship woes are weighing you down . it is like walking around with a dark storm cloud over your head.. all the time..
If you are unhappy are work look for alternatives - I know this is hard.. we will touch on this one later ..
everyone has a hobby - something they enjoy doing - the key is to truly cultivate it.. work on it - if you enjoy painting then for goodness sakes paint- do not put it off , saying ah well I don't have time - That is a cop-out. Doing something you enjoy , even if it is as simple as loving American Idol - ( I love that show) , then love it.. Don't make excuses saying oh I should not indulge myself is some silly show I need to be more productive- I say come on . watch the show , enjoy it , sit back..
do YOGA - I cannot push this enough! if anyone out there reading this knows any good yoga programs online please post on this blog ! Get a message , not everyday , just when you can . Even if it is from your partner - promise something in return.
Concentrate on the here and the now - do not DWELL on the past ..you cannot change it everyone makes mistakes -learn from them and move on . Dwelling on the past are those mind toxins I was talking about earlier - They hinder us substantially.
Express your feelings - I am not talking about being all dramatic and sappy - Just say what you feel ... especially to people you love.. this helps so much in getting your resentments out , again MIND TOXINS.
Don't set yourself up to fail it only weighs on you heavily and causes you to think poorly of yourself when you don't succeed. Make realistic goals ,tasks and deadlines.
BIG ONE HERE !! DO not rely on drugs , alcohol, blaming others..or any other props - in order to cope . ACCEPT full responsibility for your life... hear what I am saying here ..YOUR life.. not your employers, your spouse , your parents, your children - your life. When you have a certain ACCOUNTABILITY you will see truly what you need to change.