When my now exhusband and I came to Mr Grigg for counseling he blamed everything on me, making me feel like I was crazy for thinking my husband was cheating on me and lieing to me all the time. He wouldn't listen to me and played the good ole boys card. About 6 months later my husband told me he had been having a 10 month affair and had gotten the woman pregnant. I am very sad that we chose this counselor. I am not saying my marriage could have been saved but we were really looking for someone to walk us through the process of trying not listening to someone say that everything my husband did was ok and I just need to deal with it.